Reverend Chalfant tells of a couple who were celebrating their golden wedding
anniversary. The husband was asked what the secret was to his successful
marriage. As the elderly are wont to do, the old gentleman answered with a
His wife, Sarah, was the only girl he ever dated. He grew up in an orphanage
and worked hard for everything he had. He never had time to date until Sarah
swept him off his feet. Before he knew it she had managed to get him to ask her
to marry him.
After they had said their vows on their wedding day, Sarah's father took the
new groom aside and handed him a small gift. He said, "Within this gift is all you
really need to know to have a happy marriage." The nervous young man
fumbled with the paper and ribbon until he got the package unwrapped.
Within the box lay a large gold watch. With great care he picked it up. Upon
close examination he saw etched across the face of the watch a prudent
reminder he would see whenever he checked the time of day . . . words that, if
heeded, held the secret to a successful marriage. They were, "Say something
nice to Sarah."